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writes:I am a guy with an average length willie (about 6"), and I have only bottomed out once in a womans vagina, in a very petite girl. She seemed to really like it, but I have read that it is usually painful or uncomfortable. Maybe it's because I just barely did. I am curious if the bottoming out sensation or the "being filled" sensation during penetration is pleasurable or just tolerable, or does the "full" feeling come more from girth than length? If girth, what is a "satisfying" girth. I'm about 5.5" girth...about 6" at the thickest. Is this pretty thick? Just curious.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): It has been my experience that girls like deep penetration once you have been going at it a while, say about 20 minutes or so. When they really start orgasming is when you should focus on "bottoming out" as you put it. You can cause some internal bruising and she will be tender the next day, so I usually do not go deep every day. Besides you've got to mix it up to keep it fresh.Girth is relative. It is all based upon the size of her vagina. If you have a girl with a small vagina then she will feel a lot of stretching and it could be painful. I dated a girl with a very small vagina and we needed a lot of lube. After we were dating about 6 months she stretched out more and we did not need the lube anymore. She pretty much formed to my size and we were fine from then on.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (25 June 2010):
 A good "full" feeling comes from girth. The bad "full" feeling comes from length. It hurts when it's long because it hits our cervix, which feels a bit like being punched in the stomach, with something stabby. If you're just wide, however, it just feels full and satisfying. Stop worrying about your penis size. We really can't tell THAT much unless you're absolutely tiny (which you're not). We really can only feel the first three inches of our vaginas. Anything past that and it's hard to tell what's there.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (25 June 2010):
 As stated, everybody is different. Both men and women. Some women like it deep, others say it hurts. Some guys like the feeling while others don't feel much of a difference. So it is safe to say that yes, it is how you use it, but also who you are using it on.
A good sexual relationship is built on experience. Not past sexual partners, but experience with your current partner. Experimenting and giving each other feedback on what feels good and what doesn't is important. You need to learn each other's body along with their likes and dislikes. A guy with a small willie that knows his partner and what she likes can rock her world more than a guy with a 3rd arm who doesn't have a clue what she likes or how to even use it.
I wouldn't focus on length or girth because unfortunately, those are the only 2 things you CAN'T control.
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