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writes:so ive been seeing this guy for about 6 months now im 19 and hes 24..everything in the beginning was really great we would talk every night on the phone getting to know each other and then we would hangout every weekend and do everything together we got extremely close he told me how much he likes me and i told him how much i liked him, then all of a sudden recently he did a complete 180 on me hes been treating me so differently and has been so distant i only see him about every 2 weeks now and even though we still talk on the phone everyday our conversations have been really short he seems as though he doesnt even want to talk to me..one night i confronted him about why he's been "weird" towards me.. and he told me its because hes scared.. two months before we met he was with a girl for 4 years in which he got hurt then his relationship before that the girl cheated on him. so thats why im assuming hes "scared" i dont know what to do its been two months now that its been like this and i cant just walk away that easily ive fallen too hard for him i just really need some advice on what to do here! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni could be becoming that i think hes definitly taking advantage of the fact that i would do anything for him at the drop of a hat.. so now its been almost a month that i haven't seen him because two weekends in a row we got into a fight and this weekend he didn't even ask me to hangout its just really confusing to me that hes still calling me wondering what im doing but doesnt even say he misses me or wants to see me or even makes an effort to ask me to hangout i guess this distance could be a good thing maybe he will realize what hes missing out on but ive been really good about not pushing him to come see me or ask him to come over or even calling him so im really hoping that me backing off will work it just driving me crazy how he doesnt even care that he hasent seen me in a month and im really hurt about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni honestly know the reality of the situation but i cant walk away.. hes the one who is still calling me if he didn't want me in his life at all i really think he wouldn't even bother calling me i even asked him if he was over it and if he wanted to stop talking and he told me no that he likes me and thinks im a really cool person... should i just back off and see what happens? because everytime he asks me to hangout im always the one driving to him "which he lives 40 minutes away" it used to be mutual but now that hes been distant he never makes an effort to come see me i know im stupid for giving in all the time but i cant help it
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