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writes:I met a guy and we really got close really fast.. He would always tell me how much he loves me and how he wanted to be with me always and said stuff like that. the only thing is that if something is bothering him or any kind of feeling he's feeling he WON'T talk about it. i'm going to college in a few months and he didn't even want me on birth control because he was afraid it would be easier for me to cheat on him (more temptation). so 3 weeks ago we had plans to go out and he stood me up. i haven't heard from him since. uhhhh? what the heck i'm still really caught up in it because i do love him a LOT. why in the world would he do this? is he just moving on and doesn't have the balls to tell me or is he actually scared to tell me he's scared that i'm leaving and doesn't want us to get closer? help please... Reply to this Question
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reader, showoff201 +, writes (25 June 2010):
3 weeks no contact what so ever??? Hes is defintly not the type of guy you need to give ur all to! If a guy loves you his actions are gonna show you that!! It sounds like you 2 have history aswell! But his actions are unacceptable! The only honest advice I can lend you is to move on!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 June 2010):
Well, most men won't talk about feelings anyway. But this boyfriend of yours sounds very unstable to be honest. He's making you come off the pill because he doesn't trust you? You made plans and he blew you off? I think he's quite an unstable man, and to be honest, maybe it's time to just move on. You don't need a guy like this in your life.
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