My lifestyle of lying and partying is ruining my life!

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Question - (25 June 2010)

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A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey :)

i am 16 years old and basically i dont know what to do anymore!

about 6 months ago my dad died :( and since then i have been doing stranges things like:

clubbing

drinking

weed once

making my self sick

and there was one big incident with a 22 year old boy who had a girlfreind and a baby! i didnt know this at the time but we did things i told him i didnt want to but he didnt really listen it was at a house gathering in the garden.

I do get a LOT of male attention but i ignore it becasue normally they are in there 30's

I just really dont see the point in my life i am never happy and always drinking! i dont smoke weed anymore.But now when i eat a piece of fatty food i go and make myself sick becasue in my brain i think no boy would want anything to do with me becasue im FAT!

Even though my freinds say i beautiful,curvy,funny and outgoing i cant see it and i am starting to do all the things i used to be against!

like now i am actually grounded becasue i had house party without my mum knowing and she found out! :/

i lie all the time i dont even trust myself!

I am loosing all my freinds :(

what the hell am i becomeing?

please help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010):

Would just like to say I meant to put don't get weed etc but accidently put do get it!!! Do not!!!

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A female reader, smiley_1 +, writes (25 June 2010):

Hello,

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Its a traumatic experience losing someone we love.

Have you been in counselling? I think it would help you begin to grieve properly. What you're doing now is unhealthy and you're on the road to destruction.

Good luck,

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010):

you should try and break the cycle, this weekend ask your friends if they want to have a girly sleepover where you can rent a film, if you need to say sorry, and do get drink or weed etc, just all have a fun night!!

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