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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I love my boyfriend so much, and I know he feels the same. We have a great relationship, he makes me feel so safe and loved. We've been together for a year, I lost my virginity to him, and the sex is wonderful. However, no matter how horny I am before sex, no matter how much I want it and enjoy it, I always feel disgusting after its over. I'm not from a religious or conservative family, and I don't feel that there is anything wrong with sex. I just feel so guilty and regretful, like I've done something horrible. Am I alone? Does anyone else feel this way? I really want to lie in bed satisfied afterwards like he does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): I was in exactly the same situation you are. For me it was because I was so inexperienced and he was definitely not. Subconsciously I was disgusted by all of the girls he slept with before me. It's not like I would be focusing on it at that moment, but it would be in my head without me knowing it. I got over it and we are happily married now. I just had to remind myself that the past is the past. Maybe it's not that same thing for you, but my point is to just think about your relationship and any qualms you have. They could be creeping in at the wrong moment.
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