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Excessive masturbation?

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Question - (25 June 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2010)
A male Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

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Hello,

I have a problem with masturbation. I do it really often and I get turned on pretty easily. I am not sure of this healthy. Could you please tell me how many times per week is fine, health-wise? Any doctors around here?

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A male reader, seneca United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2010):

Sex drive varies from person to person, so there's no such thing as an 'acceptable' level of masturbation - or intercourse, for that matter.

If you have a very high sex drive (man or woman) masturbation or sex ten times a day might be needed to satisfy you. With a low sex drive you could go weeks without masturbation or sex and not feel deprived.

As long as it doesn't interfere with leading a normal life, let your instincts guide you. Nobody else can, because they don't know what's going on inside YOU.

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A female reader, LadyRedBBW United States +, writes (26 June 2010):

LadyRedBBW agony auntI seem to relate with you on this. Except on clitoral stimulation. I do it everynight. I dont think its good, but I cant seem to stop, or help myself. I dont seem to want it from another person either, just myself..

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (25 June 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntCan't see a downside unless you're doing it in public which would be wrong you know/

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010):

I spank the crank atleast once a day. Even when I'm in a relationship. Makes you last longer :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010):

It's a normal, healthy thing. Everyone is different. I've been doing it regularly for years.

It's more socially acceptable now (not that people talk about it).. but remember that people talk about dildos and sex toys? A lot of them are for masturbation.

I think it's a better way of relieving stress or helping yourself to feel good then to go out and sleep around. At least you can't get pregnant from it or GET anyone pregnant. Just be discreet about it and enjoy yourself. It's a natural thing.

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A male reader, dixienormous United States +, writes (25 June 2010):

I do it every other day . and most of the time im not turned on .. now thats a problem . I wish I was in your shoes !

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (25 June 2010):

person12345 agony auntSome people do it multiple times a day some people never do and there are all people in between. Unless it's interfering with your daily life or relationships, then no it's not too much. Since you asked how often per week rather than how often per day, I'd say you're fine. And healthwise? People get pretty cranky when they have to go without an orgasm for too long. Most people regard regular masturbation (well regular orgasm anyways) as very healthy.

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