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writes:I've been in this relationship for this guy for around 2 weeks now. he is the kind of guy that every girl wants to be with, the absolute macho man.teh bad boy, the kind of guy every girl wants. so he has a alot of girl "friends" which seems like a threat to me, butt im dealing with it by just trusting him and he admires that.today 2 of my bestest friends call me to plan a beach outing tomorrow, i insisted on bringing my boyfriend with me they were like sure !i tell him he said he cant make it , and oesnt want me to go either. because he doesnt trust my guy "bestfriend". which really pisses me off because hes always around girls and i dnt say anytihng about it because i trust him, and if i do say somethng he'll agree with them adn stop it but still will act all blunt with me. i dont know what to do, i dnt wanan lsoe him because now im just too attached to him... please help
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reader, SSS.  +, writes (25 June 2010):
 tell him that it isn't fair.because that isn't fair at all, he shouldn't be controlling like that, if you want to go, go.and tell him your reason for why you want to go, he's probably just a bit insecure about himself, so make sure he knows how you feel about him + that you don't have that kinda relationship with your male best friend.
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reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (25 June 2010):
 If you lose him from going on a beach trip, he wasn't worth having in the first place.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 June 2010):
You can't take on the bad boy then moan when he's let off the leash. The price of the bad boy is that you get hurt. this will be your relationship with him. He will always be threatened by other guys, he will always act this way. That's the price of the bad boy. I bet you think he'll be good for you, that he won't hurt you. Wrong. You'll get hurt. This is already a bad sign, and it will get worse. Think twice about taking on a bad boy as a boyfriend. It never works.
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