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writes:[Mod Note: Op's Original Title]I've been going out with my, as of last night, ex girlfriend for about 3 years now. She broke it off. Only two years in the age difference, but i think the maturity difference has a big gap. I've been in bad relationships and understand most problems. I'm a very nice guy...and everyone says too nice...bringing her flowers just casue its wednesday, picking her up and driving her around, etc. Needless to say I do all this becasue I want to and I love her. She cheated on me, by cheat i mean make out with, not the other kind...,the day before my birthday last year and broke up with me on my brithday. NOT the best brithday present. Just sayin.. We've broken up before and it seems we get into a cycle of: friends, friends with benefits, so close to a relationship...it basically is one, and then back together. When she was "getting her life together" last time she said that she wasnt happy and her happiness ended up being friends with benefits with me and making out with other guys and drinking 3 nights out of the week. And then One night I just had enough and made an ultimadum that she had to choose with being in a relationship with me or being single(fair I would think after 3 and 1/2 months of this...), and she chose me, but now tells me it was just out of fear of losing me...confused...i think so...Does she actaully want to be with me?? Is she just afraid of a good thing going bad somehow? (her parents divorced just before we started dating)Thanks,Confused and Lost
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