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writes:My ex.. well, since I did the break-up, At the moment she is my ex. I didn't want it to end. Everything that just goes wrong in a day I blame everything around me and I tend to 'let go'.. I did that often with her and last time she told me she was sick of me doing that and it's either I do or don't.. We had a downfall a couple of days ago and I broke up with her just over a day. I hadn't seen her in about 2. I let a day pass and this morning I text her saying that I don't want us to stop and I still love her, care for her, miss her.. and that if she just didn't want us to talk anymore, that I'll understand. Really, I just want her to be happy.. I can't stop thinking about her.. my mind is in a pickle so I think i'm going to be typing and getting off subject. The last major breakup was about 2 months ago and we did not talk for a week straight.. Now that I know i made a mistake then, I just want everything fine again. I got mad at her this time not because she went out to a friends house, that's not it, It's because I didn't hear from her all night let alone I didn't see her or talk to her on the phone all day that day. She didnt' call or anything the next morning which brought me to that point in breaking up.. I just felt like I didn't want to trust her because I feel she's doing me wrong.. I know i'm in the wrong now, so what should I do? I told her I'm sorry and I love her..I don't know what she's thinking because she didnt respond yet to any of that.. Advice for future breakdowns is also helpful.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 June 2010):
You need to let this girl go. You can't continually break up with her when the going gets tough. That's a bad sign, and shows that perhaps you're not ready to be in a relationship. At this time, you need to be focused on yourself. You're not ready, and it's very unfair to break up with her, get back together, break up again and now try to get back together. If she wants you back, she will come. Other than that, it's time to bow out and accept you've made a big mistake for the second time.
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