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writes:OK i feel kinda dumb for using this thing to figure out what i should do, so please help me. . .I'm 16 And i have been seeing this guy for 2 months. Let's call him (Rob)He's Sweet and makes me happy, But he's so immature. He's a year younger then me.He get's jealous fast. Plus he has anger problems, Needless To say we disagree a lot.When he gets mad it's actually kinda embarrassing, Because he broke his hand from hitting a wall, (his little sister called him a name and he went off)Well, Before me and Rob got together i have been talking to this other guy for round 5 months, Let's Call him (JJ). He's 17.JJ is always there for me, when i'm with him he makes me the happiest i ever been. He has a great head on his shoulders.He has some anger issues to an we do disagree as well, But he always says sorry, And he always makes up for it. But JJ is somewhat controlling.He's been hurt in his past, so he doesn't like me to talk to guys.Don't get me wrong i do have feelings for both of these guys.But i mean I really want JJ to be my boyfriend. So please give me your option on who you would choose if you was me.And also please tell me how i should break it off with the other person that i don't choose. Thanks=]
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reader, LilMissthanglovesssyou* +, writes (26 June 2010):
LilMissthanglovesssyou* is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i just really don't have to heart to hurt anyone, but i guess i can try. JJ is the guy for me now that i realize it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): well this is a tough one. iv been in a similar situation. if rob is immature and has bad anger problems and you care for jj more then be with jj if he makes you happier. these kinds of decisions are the worst kind to make, and its totally up to you. just do what feels right. and to break it off with the other person, since both have anger issues dont do it alone in person. have a friend there or do it in public or over the phone and just say your feelings hahve changed and you dont think you should be together or something like that. goodluck.
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