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writes:[Mod note: OP's title]what should i do about the relationship (over 1 year) with a woman who has constantly flirted with other men, lies over and over and is an exotic dancer? She says she loves me but I have caught her in so many lies it is staggering. She gave up the stripping for a couple months because i said i was leaving if she did not, due to the mental torture. I have taken care of her the entire relationship, paid all her bills (many) did housework, so forth and never did anything behind her back, have been faithful. I ask her to do nothing for me, i am a giving person and enjoy making her happy. But it seems it is not enough and now she has told me she is going back to stripping. She also has pill and alcohol problems. I am sober, do not even drink. I do not know if i should end this or keep trying to trust her even though she has broken that trust many times before. I kept forgiving her and took her back. now what do i do about all this? wits end
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reader, witsend +, writes (26 June 2010):
note this question was expanded on shortly after i posted this. see i sacrifice everything for her....
i met her by chance when she was not dancing. after several months together (she was caught in many lies about other things she was doing)she resumed dancing full time after we briefly separated due to an argument. i told her i would take her back if she quit which she did. she has since informed me she is going back and i had to get over it. i am 54 yrs old but i am told i don't look that old. please refer to my added post on this to get the rest of the story. i realize i was a fool, but i am a giving and forgiving person. i tried to believe in her, support her when she was in need, all that. i guess i should have seen it coming, but love makes you do stupid things sometimes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): Are you really 59 years old? How could you be that old and not know the answer to your question? It is clear to everyone else who is reading this that you are being used and now she has gone back to the strip club to find a new daddy.
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reader, CAB85 +, writes (25 June 2010):
I am going to have to agree. I honestly don't know what you are thinking. I've been to many strip clubs and the things I have seen there involving strippers. She's probably doing this because you pay for all her stuff and wants that to continue. I would suggest not staying with her.
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reader, twinlab99 +, writes (25 June 2010):
 Dude..what the hell are you doing., Have your friens not knocked any sense into you yet. She's a stripper, her whole profession was based on flirting and lies....you can take her out of the strip club, but it's gonna take time to take the strip club out of her.....she may be hot, but it comes at a cost.
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