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writes:What do I do? Ive asked questons, and all they say is give up, but I cant. I love him so much, it hurts to be away from him, not to be able to hold him. Hes horrible to me, and is mean to me and shouts at me and takes the mick out of me but I love him, and all my friends say Im weird and mental. Hes lovely, not so much to me, but I love him. I love his personality, his deep brown eyes, the little things he does, everything. His smile, his humor... What do I do? He will never love me, but I still pray... Im a boy. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): If it makes you feel any better your not alone. I have the BIGGEST crush on my boss who I am almost certain he hates me. I am leaving my job hoping to forget about him but I don't believe it will help after all other attempts I have made to forget him! Never felt this way for anyone else. Best advice, out of sight out of mind. Hard I know but I have to believe it will work and if you avoid him long enough hopfully it will work for you.
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reader, ace_16  +, writes (2 July 2010):
 its really hard forgetting someone you really love... but there's no other way...or else you just hurting yourself... try to move on,.. You just said that he can never love you so accept that fact,they say that it's just a matter of acceptance so start moving on...focus your attention on something... time heals all wounds... Gudluck!
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reader, der_zyniker  +, writes (27 June 2010):
I know first hand that it's hard to love someone that can never love you. But you said so yourself that he'll never love you. And do you really want to be with someone that treats you the way that he does. You deserve better. You deserve someone who loves you and treats you with kindness. Try to move on. The longer you dwell on this the harder it will be to move on. All you're doing by not moving on is setting yourself up for a world of hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): Not to worry if he's not into you. That's normal because not everyone openly accepts homosexual people, some are just homophobic.It's just what makes every individual special in their own way. What I would recommend is that you must move on as soon as possible. It's not going to happen if he's not interested in you, the worst could hurt you and only kill you inside.
In short, forget him! His is not appreciate you and not worth for you to have feeling for him. I know it seem hard but you still young. Chances are still out there.
All the best !
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reader, cherrycherry +, writes (25 June 2010):
Hey. just stop and take a breather. its going to be ok. my uncle is gay and he's only a few short years older than me and we are best friends. I understand him so well and him me. I asked him and this is from the both of us now- you need to move on. I'm so sorry I know its not what you want to hear but its the truth. you don't deserve the meanness and the shouting. you are not weird or mental. we all have problems that seem different to others and they don't know how to act. you need to try and get in a new relationship and try and be happy some where else. maybe you can talk to him about it? I am in a very tough situation myself. I understand it will be so hard to let go. don't let anyone else bring you down, be a shooting star and make the wishes you want when you want its your life you can have so much better. My best to you. Good luck. :)
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