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writes:Hey Guys: Have any of you ever had feelings for your good friends girlfriend? If so how did you act towards her? Or if you knew someone who has, how did they act towards her? What are some signs i can look for to confirm that my boyfriends best friend may have feelings for me?
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reader, haven  +, writes (25 June 2010):
I had feelings for my bestfriend's boyfriend who's one of my guy friends aswell. Well, everytime I'm around him, I tried to avoid him since I don't to cause any fight with my bestfriend because of my feelings toward his guy but fighting that feeling has been really hard for me so I flirted with him by giving him stares that shows 'meaning'if you know what I mean. I always try to avoid him each time my bestfriend is around but when she's gone, that's the time I go talk to him since being alone with him makes all the talking more comfortable. That part of my past is something that I don't really want to remember since it almost broke a friendship. If your guys bestfriend acts really weird around you, I think that you should ask him what he really feels for you. As for your guy, I think that he has the right to know if ever his friend has been eyeing you...well,before that confrontation stage, you have to be sure that his friend is really 'in' to you. Watch his actions and you suspects something that may stand as proof, ask your guy's bestfriend in a way that wouldn't make him uncomfortable. Don't put too much pressure on him. Ask him a friendly tone that wouldn't sound as if you're flirting with him.
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