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*nnonymous777
writes:So theres that whole thing about chemestry with someone and how you can feel if its there or not right away on a date or upon meeting soomeone. Can that chemestry that was so great and immensly there just go away all of a sudden? For example me and my bf have been going out for a long time and we always had great chemestry but i just dont feel it anymore.. How come? Can i get it back, and does this happen often? PS I know that the "honeymoon" period wears off and im not taking about that. I know that wore off along time ago but there was still SOMETHING there. Now i just dont feel it al all :(
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (25 June 2010):
 Chemical reactions are temporary. If they lasted forever, the earth would smell a little funny.
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reader, Annonymous777 +, writes (25 June 2010):
Annonymous777 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe have been dating for 4 years and it just started happening these last couple months.
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reader, ukcats +, writes (25 June 2010):
Looks like I am n the same boat, as I just posted a question as similar. I like the last answer going out on dates. If I do recall everytime we get together we do have a glow. So with that being said, somewhere, where there are no distractions, you both can concentrate on each other. If you feel strongley about that, how could your feelings change?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (25 June 2010):
 Sometimes these things just happen. There will always be a little ebb and flow of passion/chemistry after the initial infatuation goes away. Usually there are weeks of less passion and weeks of more. The best things to do are to make dates to go out and do exciting new things. Like rock climbing, or something that pushes your boundaries. Trying something new together can help bring back those first in love feelings. How long have you two been dating/when did this happen?
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