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writes:Hello, I'm 17 years old and I'm an idiot who's well in love with her idiotic best friend. *laughs* It sucks, I really don't know how long this 'confession' will be, but I have to tell it and see if anyone here can help this idiot! *laughs* and i mean me, I'm the idiot. Alright I've known 'Bob' (gotta protect his stupid identity...wanna know his number? *laughs* kidding.....) Okay well anyways me and 'bob' have known each other since 6th grade, we are now seniors starting August. Finds out, when we had talked one day, that around the same time we both liked each other at the same time around eighth grade. And never told each other...because we are both idiots. I've been through a lot with this guy and one day i let it slip...(well i kinda wanted to let it slip...you know how we girls are..) that i was in love with someone. Of course he pestered me to death, until i told him, that well it was him. All he said was okay and smiled like a big stupid idiot. which by the way made me seriously pissed, for he never even reply, and I'm too scared to ask...So, we never mention it ever again. Okay to clear this up 'bob' knows me better than anyone else, he even told me he did and that if he asked me a question that he would be able to know what i would say before i did...which got me mad, because hes like a frickin puzzel to me!! Hes so confusing half the time, i never know what hes thinking. He always throws me off the edge on what he does and says.So, back to the main point, A few nights ago I'm trying to fall asleep and i can't, so we start to tex and it's super late at night, but we do that all the time. All of the sudden he sends me a text message saying he loves me...I'm completely freaking out now and i question him on wither he was joking or being serious. He said he was being serious. And that basically ends that nights conversation.The next morning i wake up and he sent me a texasking if i got any weird texts during the night...I go kinda and he went okay. My friend had my phone all night, and then when i got my phone back he had deleted all my messages and said good luck. Which got me super mad, because it seemed like it was him.....so does anyone think that hes lying? Or is he telling the truth, or should i give him a chance, because about right now...i wanna kill him! He drives me crazy!! And i have tryed getting over him so many times....but he always says something that pulls me in. *laughs* Help me please!
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reader, MeShell +, writes (25 June 2010):
MeShell is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you so much for the two replies i have gotten so far. Yes I care about this guy a lot. My friends even tell me that they have no idea why we are not dating at the moment. All i can say is...I like him, but i Don't know if he feels the same way. And I'm not the type of person that will just throw my love at someone else. I told him that actually, that if he doesn't have the same feelings for me, I won't push my feelings on him. I want him to love me, because he loves me, not because he feels pressured to. Yes, I'm in complete hell with him, half the time i never know what he's thinking and I try to get over him, but the guy just knows how to get me to talk to him when i don't want to. Once again, thank you for the two replies i have received already! ^^ Now i waiting if their is a guy on here that can kinda help me from the 'boy' prospective! ^^
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reader, MeShell +, writes (25 June 2010):
MeShell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for the two replies i have gotten so far. Yes I care about this guy a lot. My friends even tell me that they have no idea why we are not dating at the moment. All i can say is...I like him, but i Don't know if he feels the same way. And I'm not the type of person that will just throw my love at someone else. I told him that actually, that if he doesn't have the same feelings for me, I won't push my feelings on him. I want him to love me, because he loves me, not because he feels pressured to. Yes, I'm in complete hell with him, half the time i never know what he's thinking and I try to get over him, but the guy just knows how to get me to talk to him when i don't want to. Once again, thank you for the two replies i have received already! ^^ Now i waiting if their is a guy on here that can kinda help me from the 'boy' prospective! ^^
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reader, angel of the north  +, writes (25 June 2010):
 Well it appears to me that he does like you and is afraid to say so in case you reject him. most boys his age try to say someone else sent the message if they feel worried that it wont be received in the right way. if you like him as much as you say then my advice is to go for it you have nothing to lose if it doesnt work and your friendship is strong enough it should survive, but sitting wasting time thinking about it wont help anyone. tell him you want to become more than friends and give him a time limit in which to reply and make it clear that if he hasn't told you that you are boyfriend and girlfriend by the end of that time then you will only ever be his friend. If that does happen you will have to do what I've had to do and just keep loving someone from afar so as not to lose the friendship hope it works out for you x
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reader, cherrycherry +, writes (25 June 2010):
you seem like you really have a problem here. but I've when through the same thing. he obviously likes you but when he did not answer the first time when you told him ...he was trying to figure out if he rally loved you back. when you got that text....well first you need to find out if he really had a friend steal his phone. and then that will answer the question is its true or not....I think he is trying to decide how he really feels about you. give him a little time and then you need to jump up and ask him. don't be afraid because if you don't ask and you let it go you'll never know unless he steps up and that could be forever. make him see your being serious. Good Luck. :)
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