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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've dated this guy for almost 3 years, we had sex a lot. I'm 16, but I'll be 17 in November. Well me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up a while back and I've moved on to someone else and we have been dating for a couple months, we've been good friends for awhile before though. Now that we're dating, im so nervous or scared to have sex or do anything like that with him. I want to. Its not like im not ready because me and my ex boyfriend did it all the time. I want to with my new boyfriend, and i know he does too. Im just nervous this time and don't know why? What should I do? ..This time Im worried about moaning, or not being good, or not doing it right.. But before I never thought about those things.. Should I just do it? Or whats going on? pleasseee comment back ASAP! Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): sex is something that is different depending on person, everyone feels differently about it. me and my bf had sex and at first i was terrified that i would do something wrong and be bad, but i found out that when you hold back and focus so much energy on trying to be good, its not going to be good for you or him. do what you like to do and don't be afraid to experiment. if he cares about you hes not gonna care about if you make one mistake. but really its sex and if you've done it before then don't be nervous cuz you already know what to do. so just do it and give him all you got:)
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