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writes:ok so me and my gf have been together for 7 months now and we are beyond the sexual level of our relationship...well just lately i been having an issue because she wont show me her LADY part (vagina), now thats not the problem. The problem is she always ask to see mine but when i ask to see hers in return she either ignores me or come up with alot of excuses like "i'm scared to do it.....I feel nervous" and the most messed up excuse in my opinion "I DONT WANT TO GO AROUND SHOWING BOYS MY THING". im her boyfriend so why put me in the same category as BOYS? well i got frustrated and just quit because its been a month since i been asking and i feel like shes using me to get what she wants and i ask to see hers nicely but it never works. i just feel like giving up completely. what should i do? is she worth getting mad over? please help....P.S, she shows me her boobs and she doesnt have any problems with it, so it can't be that she's body conscious
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reader, Tasty  +, writes (12 July 2010):
Don't give up on your girlfriend just becuase she isn't showing you her parts she may just hate the way her vagina looks, i was the same at one time until my boyfriend offered me oral sex with lights off and i agreed and from then i haven't been shy about it. just try to talk to her and tell her how this is making you feel and she might tell you the real reason she isn't letting you see.
P.S. try offering so oral sex and see what she says xx
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reader, GettingHelp  +, writes (12 July 2010):
Offer to finger her... with her underwear on... (Its possible)
Move on to offering oral sex with the lights off... Gradually progress... You might get her there eventually.
You may find that as previous aunt said... She's self concious about it, not everybody feels that their vagina is God's gift to men. She may feel that her vagina is not attractive.
You could also GENTLY explain the double standard she's setting.
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reader, Odds +, writes (12 July 2010):
 Many women are embarrassed about how their lady-parts look. Especially when spread open (which is probably what she thinks you're going for), some just don't like the way it looks. Perhaps showing it off would make her feel like a porn star - not a good feeling for some girls.
Have you tried offering oral sex? She may find that hard to turn down.
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