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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:there is a guy at school who is like a dream to me--all the things a girl would want-caring, funny, attentive, sensitive and oh-my-goshly-good-looking...... we are allready friends--quite close come to think of it, but i really really do have a humongourous crush on him.. im not lying here-----i would kill for him and could not live without him.. there would be a hole in my life. But (and i am being perfectly honest, I would like to say that he feels the same about me) i am not sure, he returns my feelings.... he shows some signs like looking at me as though i am the most beautiful thing to his eyes, he says my name a lot and looks at me when he says a joke as if to see if im laughing too but he never replies to text messages, and if he does its one worded, and i just dont think he does like me in that way.....Both of us are both really shy about saying feelings for eachother so he probly wouldnt ask me out yet--just tell a friend and maybe it would come out.Could anyone suggest anything that could make him see my feelings or help me read his or what you think or whatever might help because i really want to know???Thanks xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 July 2010):
Oh, to get into a man's head. I'm sure that the 3 billion other women on the planet would be interested in knowing how to do that :).
From a male point of view, getting into our heads is next to impossible in a situation like this. Why? Because men just don't read all those subtle hints that you girls like to send off, so we usually sit there either totally oblivious, or totally confused.
There is only one to to know how he feels, and that means you being a bit brave and asking him. If you don't, you'll still be wondering, and you'll lose him. Be brave and talk to him.
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