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writes:My boyfriend and I cant stop touching each other! lol We kiss and immediatly, sparks go off. He holds my hand, sparks. He smiles at me, sparks. We laugh together-sparks! He is my first. I always want him! He loves my stamina and sometimes, he'll purposely kiss the back of my hand and watch me pounce on him a second later :p We'll have sex and it always feels amazing to me but I cant come...five minutes later, I want him again, he obliges...amazing...can't come. It feels so good though I hate to tell him I didn't when it's always so intense and hot. Why can't I orgasm? This is kicking my butt all over, I REALLY want to but it's not happening...I have no trouble by myself. I so can't be asexual :p lol Are we having too much sex? I see him about 3 to 4 times a week and each time, we average three times a day. We started being intimate in April...Thanks in advance for the help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow, thanks every one! I really appreciate your time and insight on this :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 July 2010):
 No, it is not because of too much sex. How are your trying to get an orgasm when you have sex? Is it always you in control or does he ever go down on you? Getting and orgasm with a partner takes time and practice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): Make sure that either he or you is always working the outer part while you guys are going at it and you get close. Push his hand, guide his hand, or just do it yourself. Then you will :D and it will probably give you a better sense of satisfaction since you do have an orgasm, you won't necessarily need it right after you just got it.
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