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anonymous
writes:I was having sex with my boyfriend and I was on top and I got an orgasm, but it felt like the same orgasm I have when I rub myself, it wasn't that intense, lasted about 20 seconds and I was done. I was wondering if this because of my clit maybe rubbing against his body, or was this a real full blown out orgasm? I've never had one, but I want one desperately.. I have sex that feels good great, and I can feel when my boyfriend is pushing in the right spots but I can never reach my peak. :(What to do?
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reader, StraightTalker  +, writes (14 July 2010):
Im a bit confused by this, is orgasm supposed to feel different if you have sex? I think this is totally normal, orgasm is orgasm whether its through sex or masturbation. I can only speak for myself but orgasm feels exactly the same to me however I achieve it. And by the way 20 secs is actually really good, I would count yourself lucky. Mine only last a few seconds. Holding a vibrator to my clitoris makes orgasm ALOT easier for me during sex. Also, dont compare yourself to porn etc, all the moaning and shaking and multiples, its all exaggerated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): The thing is it doesn't really sound like an orgasm, especially if it fades so quickly during sex. Buy a bullet vibrator from Ann summers or somewhere, trust me!!
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (12 July 2010):
 You say you can never reach your peak, but you said you've had an orgasm.
Maybe convey to him that you want him to help you achieve that mind-blowing orgasm you talk about.. it could be an adventure for both of you :)
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