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anonymous
writes: ive fallen for someone and i dunno if i regret it or not we went out few days ago for the first time, and got on well, we kissed and that at the end of our datebut i dunno if he wants a relationship, hes sucha nice guy thou, like amazingi had a convo with him on msn tonight and something seems off with him tho heres a lil bit of the convo him - what u doing tmro? xme - nothing yet, you? xhim - same bbes xme - oh kk, do u think ur gna do anything tmro? him - lol i dno, myt be goin out at 7, y bbes?me - just asking him - lool u sure :Pme - ermm yhh him - lool ok me - lolthen nothing after that, we are ment to be going out this week but im scared he dnt like me anymore :(am i just being paranoid? i know theres not alot of info there, but im just scared, i reaaaaally like him, this is the first boy ive fallen for in 2 yrs
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your advice, its helped a lot
he usually talks to me really nice and he starts the convo, i started it yday, just felt weird
but i'll see how it goes
thankyou again
take care
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (12 July 2010):
Well its hard to tell if your conversation is odd because I don't know how he usually talks to you.
However, I recently found out that just because a date goes amazing in one party's eyes it doesn't mean the other feels it too, even if they say so. (hey, people lie all the time, especially to spare feelings, in the case of more cowardly people)
He's still talking to you and that's a wonderful sign. If a guy really didn't want to see you again at all, he probably wouldn't keep talking to you. He may be having a bad day and seem off, it might be all in your head. who knows, but if you think he still seems off for the next week towards you then either confront him or move on.
You're plenty young and there are millions of cute guys out there. Good luck!
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