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*iotgirl20
writes:Ok so I met this guy and we started texting he was really sweet and we had a lot in common. We talked on the phone for 2 hours one night, and tried to get to know each other more. When we first started talking he said he wanted a relationship and not just sex, that if he wanted sex he had girls he could call for that.We were making plans to meet up on friday and he kept changing the time. Saturday we texed a few times, but after that he stopped texting me. After almost a week he texed me on Friday, he said he was sorry and that he had been busy. This guy doesnt have a job and lives with his parents, he also mentioned that his friends were to busy to do anything. My friend thinks he was trying to get with someone else and it fell through so he decided to talk to me again.What do you think?
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reader, xanthic +, writes (13 July 2010):
 Yes, I do think he tried to use you as a backup plan. He's already told you exactly how you'd be treated, what else do you need to hear to know he's not worth wasting your time? 'I don't want just want sex from you, I have other girls to call for that' means he'll definitely run off to one of them the second you don't give him what he wants. Any man that specifically tells you he's not looking for sex and then in the same breath says he has other girls to call for sex is only telling you what you want to hear, hoping you'll give in and be added to that group of girls. Men like that view women as a convenience, nothing more. Also, I agree with your friend; he probably made plans with someone else, which then fell through. Don't bother with him, he sounds like an immature loser.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (12 July 2010):
 Yes, you are plan B. Get rid of him!!
You deserve more then that!
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reader, Traycie +, writes (12 July 2010):
Dont waste your time with this worthless bum go out and find yourself a real man
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 July 2010):
"When we first started talking he said he wanted a relationship and not just sex, that if he wanted sex he had girls he could call for that."
For me, that says it all about this guy. He doesn't seem to have any real kind of respect for women at all. That, plus the fact that he sounds like a total bum. I think you're utterly wasting your time with this guy, and I think you can do a million times better. Please don't waste your time with someone who seems to think that women are effectively just objects he can use any time he likes.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (12 July 2010):
 Sounds sketchy. My question to you is: Why waste your time with this jobless mooch who can't even return a text?
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