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anonymous
writes: I am 19 and I have never had a relationship, boyfriend, or even been kissed. Am i the only one out there? Is there something wrong with me? Is there anything i can do to improve my pathetic social life? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, amandanash +, writes (15 July 2010):
You aren't doing anything wrong, the timing just isn't right. Things will happen when they are meant to happen! When you aren't looking, you'll find what youre needing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI appreciate your advice, and I agree this lack of a social like is not volentary. I just dont know what I am doing wrong. I try to be outgoing and confident, but when I am the only one of my friends who has never had a relationship I have to assume it is something I am doing to keep guys away.
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reader, Dr. Reality +, writes (13 July 2010):
I married a virgin of 39 yo. She never had a BF or a real relationship. Now I am paying the price. Her social skills are atrocious and her love making leaves me wanting more.
No relationship at 19? You are still young and have a margin of error to go. Don't let it go too long though. You will miss out on the social shaping of interaction with the opposite sex that molds you for the future.
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reader, amandanash +, writes (12 July 2010):
Nope!! I am 19 as well and my first and only boyfriend just broke up with me a week ago. Hurt me so bad and broke me to pieces, but there is nothing wrong with you. Enjoy life! Someone will come when you're least expecting it (cheesy but so true).
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