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writes: Hi All, I am 30 years old, its been 8 months that i got out of a unhappy marriage, about 5 months ago i met this girl that i now totaly adore and love, initially when we started getting serious she did tell me that she at one point was lesbian..when we have sex, she does show a lot of signs that she enjoys lesbian sex, this does not bother me, what bothers me is that this may come in way if i am thinking of a long term relationship, i want to have a hoem again, have kids and settle down, i am not sure if need to ask her these questions now. right now she is overseas where one of her ex boy freind is also around, there are so many hang ups.. a month ago, she had her boy freind stay over her place this incident was sorted mutualy, there was no issues, now she is overseas.. she did not call me for 48 hours.. i could not sleep all night, she later called me and told me that there was an issue with the network, i totaly trust her, I am not sure if this relationship is healthy for me, i can see a toll on my life style, it is nearly 11 pm, i cant sleep with all this on my head, I keep thinking of her constantly and all these different things, I am not sure if i can trust her and lay my life in her hands.please help me..i will greatly appreciate your honest advice.
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