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writes:hi, I'm 15, and my boyfriend is 17. we started dating on christmas and the first 2 months we had no fights, everything was perfect even though we barely hungout since i had basketball every day and he had to work right when i got out of practice. after basketball season was over, we started having problems because he was being an asshole and i expected too much. we broke up a few times, got back together. In may, we werent going out but we still hung out and acted like we were. beginning of june, we stopped talking because he was saying i was a bitch for wanting more time with him and not his friends. after two weeks of not talking, we talked again and got back together a few days after. we've been dating for about 3 weeks again now. the 25th will be 7 months total, but he's such an asshole. he puts weed and his friends before me. we fight almost every day, he ignores me when he is with his friends. but he always says good morning and good night, sometimes calls me. he'll tell me he loves me and im his everything. when we do hangout, he's really cute and cuddles the whole time. he expects to have sex alot, but i told him to stop and he said he was gonna hold off. I'm deeply in love with him, he makes me feel special, but he's an asshole. should i dump him or keep him? what should i do? help!
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reader, SkyLaBleu +, writes (13 July 2010):
 Ok, I know how it is to be in love at such a young age. I've been with my boyfriend since I was 13, I'm 16 now, he's 18. But hunnie the fact he does weed should be the first strike. Even if you don't mind that, imagine if you're in the car with him, you get stopped by a cop, he has weed, both of you are going to jail. Believe me I know, my friend went through the same stuff. All that aside, if he's treating you like this now, he won't change. He sounds like he's using you for sex and his other wants, but when his friends are around he tunes you out. Dump him. It may hurt for a while but I promise your life will be so much better in the long run. Trust me! Good luck!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 July 2010):
I don't think he does make you feel special. I think he makes you think you can't do better. Clearly you can. Look at the facts about this guy. He ignores you, spends little time with you, chooses even weed over you, fights with you, blah, blah, blah. But he does manage to find the time to have sex with you a lot. How interesting. I'm sorry, but you're being used by this guy, and you can do better. Dump him. You're not there to be used for sex when he likes. You're supposed to be his girlfriend. But like you says, he's an asshole. And that means you can do better. So please dump this guy and go and do better.
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