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writes:hey, this might sound like a stupid question but here goes anyway..basically i'm 18, i'm a lesbian and i've been with my gf for 6/nearly 7 months now. she was a virgin when we met so obviously i didn't push her into anything sexual- scary enough the first time let alone when you've just figured out you're gay and you're new to women! eventually she felt ready to have sex and we've slept together three times now. each time has been absolutely amazing, so far so good. i've slept with a couple of women before but i'm totally new to the whole 'relationship' thing, they've all been one night stands. so the question i'm asking is, besides fingers and tongues, how else can i spice up our sex life to make it even better than it already is? she said she's enjoyed it so far, but has expressed a disinterest in using toys. she told me she likes it when i'm 'forceful' with her. any suggestions? thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): I don't agree with the comment about finding other partners. It sounds like you're both pretty new to this whole thing so just take it one step at a time! The *ahem* graphic comment was a great bit of advice ;-) If you guys really enjoy it, there's loads of positions you can try. If you really like her it's well worth sticking with, even if it takes a little while to get into the 'groove' of it all (excuse the pun). Good luck :-) xx
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reader, Dr. Reality  +, writes (13 July 2010):
Ok, maybe its me but this beckons the question here. You slept together just three times in seven months and you need some spice already? Wow. 18 and bored. I think you picked the wrong partner. Cute and adorable is one thing but if you need some spice after only three times, I would be looking for an older, more experienced partner to hook up with. Innocent and shy is one thing but getting your ya ya's off needs previous experience.
Since you are only 18, I suggest multiple partners in addition to that little kitten you have there. Bring her along properly but get your freak on elsewhere. Remember your brain is your largest sexual organ. If it is not stimulated then neither will your body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): Excuse the graphic reply, but most of your stimulation will be clitoral, so penetrative toys (double-ended dildos, etc.) are not the best approach.
Have you tried going clit-to-clit?
Pull things apart down there, uncovering your respective clits and matching them up physically when in the "missionary" position, and go at each other in a similar way to a straight couple would, giving as much mutual clitoral stimulation as you can, and wait for the fireworks!
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