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writes:Ok I meet this girl online about 2 yrs ago. In I gave here my phone number in she called me up. After that we started to talk for a long time. Like for 2 yrs stright. When I meet her she had a boyfriend but she broke up with him after a 8yr relationship with him. Then she got with me. So that was like a yr into are relationship that she broke up with him. So now we have started talking a lot more like every day type of thing even falling a sleep on the phone with each other because it's a longdistance relationship. So about 5 months in to the relationship I wanted to fly over in see her. So I did I went over there for a good 3-4 weeks. The only thing is that we had to watch out for her mom and dad. Because they did not know anything about us. So they did not know any thing about me. So I went over there for 4 weeks it was a blast in did not want to leave her! But I only was there for a little amont of time. So it did not matter about here mom and dad. So my time was up went back home. In there things kind of got a little rocky she wanted to do more go out with her friends a lot more in just do more things. So she did In I got mad at her because I did not want her to go out sometimes so she did go out more when we fight it was like getting worse and worse the fighting did. And now we still loved each other though we where not with each other. At the time we where fighting we where apart then about 7 or 8 months after that I made up my mind in I was going back over there to live with her or try to move out in get my place. Well to rap up what I'm trying to say is that I was over there one day at here house in her mom found me living with her in told me to get out. So I did after that I got out in went back home. In not even a month after I came back home she broke up with me in blocked me from every thing her phone not email though or msn. She is just not on the coump any more in I just dont know what to do any more I still love her in want to be with her I miss her so much I dont know what to do with out her But after two weeks when we have not talked at all she wrote back to me on msn last night in we talked it was cool but today she has not gone back on msn or has emailed me back I dont know what to do I want her back!! ps sry about bad spelling :)
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reader, promiker +, writes (30 August 2010):
promiker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have ask her why in she said it was because we where fighting a lot but I think she never realy wanted me I mean if she did she would still be with me no matter what right?
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (30 August 2010):
 oh boy.where does she live?
and umm,i totally sympathize with you,you invested so much into this relationship where she probably hasn't.u did all the work,u went to her place everytime,while she wasnt makin any effort.u need to ask urself WHY u want her back.she probably has changed.u dont wanna be with someone just because u had feelings for them in the past,would ya? ask her whats going on and demand a straightforward answer.
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reader, promiker +, writes (29 August 2010):
promiker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't know why she would not tell her mom and dad about me. But I was wanting her to talk about me around them but she would not even talk to me on the phone around them.I don't know why but 2yrs past in she did not even talk to me on the phone around her mom and dad.?
No she does not live with them she is just renting out her moms house.
I don't know why she did not want me to hang out with her friends because they think I was not good for her in they did not like me I think.
And yeah I do still care for her alot I can't stop thanking of her I miss her so much In would love to write her mom and dad but I dont know nothing about there where abouts so it would be hard right now but I wish I could but I dont know hwtas going to happen I thank she might have found a nother guy so I might be to late.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (29 August 2010):
 How come her parents did not know you were in touch with their daughter? To say nothing of her letting them know you planned to visit? Does she live with them?
Having to "be careful about her mom and dad" added unnecessary stress to your visit from the get-go.
Yes, she wanted to get together with her friends. But why not invite you along and introduce her to some of them?
It sounds as though these kind of concerns just put a real damper on things.
So now: see if she contacts you again, and if so, see how it goes. Perhaps to start with, if she does want to continue with her, she will be more straightforward with her parents about being friends with you.
One more thought: MAYBE, just maybe, you might consider writing them a letter and telling them a little about yourself, such as what your job is (I wonder if they might be opposed because IF you ARE by any chance, not working, the question of how it would be dating their daughter would be a natural and legitimate concern for them). Let them know you really care for her and want her happiness.......this is just an idea you might or might not want to consider........
But first of course, you'll have to see if she contacts you again, and if so, what she says.
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reader, promiker +, writes (29 August 2010):
promiker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah but she did not tell her mom and dad that I was with her in it was like 2 yrs into the relationship. I think your right she just was not into me like that I wish she would have told me when I first said I loved her in she said it back??
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reader, CHULA28  +, writes (29 August 2010):
 Dont get me wrong,but when two persons love each other badly ,they just dont care about nothing or nowbody,they are gonna be together no matter what,family,friends etc.,.But when only one side of the relationship just give and care and love and you just dont get nothing back...ohhhh dear ,i guess shes just not in to you like that...dont swear it..move on...been there ,done that....i guess love is two not only one.....good luck ..thats just how i see it.
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