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He treats me so bad, but I can't get over him. What's wrong with me?

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Question - (28 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

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1)-Ive got a problem with a guy im seeing but and i really like him but he doesnt show any interest in me. The second time i slept with him he wanted to do what they do in da end of a porn movie in my mouth so i said hell no next day i called him he started acting up. he told me he's not into relationship with me, told me that he isnt into emotions. ever since he's picking fights when i call him when ever i call him, why is he treating me like shit and i never done anything wrong. he talks about me to his friends and what we do in bed then he has the cheek to give out my number to his friends. i feel so used i why cant see that i want him he hasnt called me for 2months but i foned him 3weeks ago asking why he gave out my number he told me to f-off then hang up on me. he makes me feel so low. he used me for sex i cant get over him now he wid sum1 else whats wrong with me.

2)-i have a problem ive seeing this guy i really like him but he doesnt like me in that way but he use to call me for sex, i have strong feeling for him and he knows he told me he doesnt do emotional talk its really hard to talk to him about anything. i feel so used because he treats me like crap these days and i dont know why he talks about me to his friends talks about what we do behind close doors then 3weeks ago he gave out my phone number to his friends i asked him why did you give out my number and he said f*** off then hanged up. i feel so used and it hurts, i dont no why he is treating like this.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010):

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i dont think its righht that he talks to me like shit and talks about other girls, and giving out my phone number to his friends ive never met. i love him but i just dont understand why he's breaking my heart. he wont talk to me he keeps telling me his busy.

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A male reader, mike565657 United States +, writes (28 August 2010):

seems like to me he used u for sex cause if he breaks up with u over not letting him cum in your mouth then that means he has not feeling for u and is around u only for sex and he tells people about u and him so he can brag to his friends about how much of a player he is, also seems like hes using your vulnerability to have sex with u when your down, im sure he is cheating on u and will leave u once he finds another person to use, also if i was u i would not have sex in a relationship for at least 6 months to a year cause if a guy waits that long i think he is prolly genuine but maybe not u never know with all the weird people so i hope u stop this abuse your putting on yourself and learn from this so it does not happen again

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