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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met a guy this summer and we ended up going out for a bit. We didn't make a big deal about it (no change in relationship statuses on facebook etc.) but he lives far away. He left a few days ago and i am puzzled about what is going to happen now. He has called and texted me and said some really sweet romantic things but I don't know what we are exactly. He said he was definitely going to come back later on for a long period of time because he wanted to be with me. But i mentioned that i might be able to visit him in a few months but he hasn't replied. I don't want to give him the impression that I'm pushing him into a long distance relationship or something, i understand that it would be impractical but i dont know what he wants. I don't want to lose him (since he will be back to visit) any advice about how to address this problem with him? i am honestly open to anything, whether it be an open relationship, a long distance relationship or even taking a break. thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010): Wait till he comes back and see if the chemistry is there.
I wouldn't push to visit him, just in case he's taking a breather to see what he wants with you.
Time will tell--and you're very young, so you have lots of it!
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