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female
age
41-50,
*utecaty
writes: am in the middle of weired situation since 3 or more month now! he loved me for 5 years,but he always wanted us to get marry but i wasnt sure and our relation were like going month then back .we left once but i asked him to come bakc hardly then he did now he is gone !! now am sure after too late! he broke up after we in somehow got engaged for 2 weeks ! i wasnt sure ..he felt that ! he is older than me in 8 years ..now am 28 years old ! after a month from what happened i tried to call him ..he answerd my call and i asked him to go back to each other and i was listening to the ppl around that we may not work ! ...he said its over ,...and he said : when someone come to propose you dont stay too long time before answering him ! and i should not think in details too much ! i love him ! that was in 5 of may ...now its months gone i sent to him an email but he didnt respond at all ! iwas telling about my dad surgery after his heart attack and telling him how much i love him and i wish for him th happy life ever but i love him too ! plzzzzz help ! wt to do !! he is working and livning away from my city ! he is always busy with his work ! diver and having diving center ! he thought once that am asking him to come back cos no another options but i never let him know how many guys are welling to give them the chance that i gave to him ! plzzz wt shull i do ?? to let him back to me !!! he is now doese not trust me ...he is tough guy and romance as his birthday in 1st of march ! today i sent another email after 3 weeks from th 1st email with my poem i wrote and song and talked to him frankly ..i said am gna write as a friend to not get nervous ..and wrote about things i never told him before and memories am thinking about ithe replied !! but wrote this :salma , I dont want to repeat the same CD again and tell you I waited 6 years and and you broke my heart and and ..... NOW What I want to say is You have your life and I have mine .. I wish you all the luck with a better person .. 5als you should move on with your life .. as for me It is over.... I already got over you and I am not welling to come back again. therfore you should do the same get over me and find your way for new fresh life with new person you have many choices as I saw with your second mail ... choose one and get along With god bless ... Good luck plzzzzzzzz heeeeeeeeeeeelpppppppppp .....i met another ppl but no way to leave him !! :ohmy:
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): it seems to be over and you need to continue with your life.
i have been in similar situation and know how you feel, and i know you want to give it another try, so here what i think you can do.
you can call him and tell him how you feel and you know you did wrong letting him wait for too long, but that was a mistake and everyone do mistake, and if he really loves you, he will forgive you and give you a chance and tell him that you changed, and ask him for last chance.
but to tell you what i think, i don't think it will work, as it seems he made up his mind, and it seems you already told him you got alternatives and he didn't care.
so i think you need to let it go and look for love in another place,
best luck
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