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writes:A guy has a live in Girlfriend that he calls his"girl" but also has a long term lover on the outside that the live in Girlfriend may or may not know about.Would you say that this guy is committed or would you say he's playing games and using both woman and basically wants his cake and eat it too? Reply to this Question
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reader, James the Rocket  +, writes (28 August 2010):
You say long term lover, so he may love both women. As long as no one is getting hurt, it's fine.
Don't stick your beak in. And don't pick on him or he might think you will dob him in and then he may confess to get in first... don't cause trouble.
People can get killed over this shit, so mind your own business.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFirts of all the lover in this scenario happens to be a very close friend of mine and the bottom line in this whole situation is this that yes this man wants to make it appear to his live in GF that they are in a supposed " committed" serious relationship and have my friend on the side for the purpose of if the in the evnt of something happeneing.
So what he's actually doing here is using both his GF and my friend and in order to do this has to lie to the two of them to keep the deception going.
The sad part about it is that this man will keep going back to my friend for as long as she allows him to.
Why wouldn't he if he can have the best of both worlds.
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reader, jkirk +, writes (28 August 2010):
Lucky man, gets to have his cake and eat it to.
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