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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey, so i have a problem, i started dating this girl in 9th grade, and we were great together, advancing well, but then three days later we broke up. She said that it just didnt feel right, that i felt like more of a friend to her. Then a couple weeks later, she wanted to date again. Like last time, it was amazing, but gradually she drifted from me, didnt sit next to me, didnt talk to me unless i talked to her first. We finally broke up, AFTER i found out she was cheating with someone she swore she hated, thought was ugly, immature and annoying and would never date. We havent seen or talked to each other all summer, now were sophomores and just saw eachother yesterday during lunch. Within the first ten minuts we were flirting and having a good time, and then she poked me. She since day one has done this every time she basically feels attracted, that she either is enjoying, or just before, she wants to date me. We only have lunch this year, no classes, and the other guy was kicked out of school.What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): You're tennagers! You guys are probaly going to be dating on and off all through out high school. Just because the guy she cheated on you with isnt in school anymore doesnt mean that she wont do it do again with someone else.
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reader, answerfromtheheart +, writes (28 August 2010):
 I think she knows she can get attention from you, but I'm afraid if you give in and start dating her again, sometime later she will push you away.
For now I recommend not giving in to her desire, and just keep flirting but not dating. Make the hunt interesting. She knows if she wants to she can get you any time, don't let her and you will win her more that way
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