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I can't figure out what direction our friendship may be taking

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Question - (28 August 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 30-35, *rendan1 writes:

There is this girl who kinda blew me away the first time I saw her. I didnt really think much of it at first, but over the last months Ive come to realize I really like her. But she happens to be 2 years older than me (Im 20).

Anyway, we always seem to be playful around each other, usually invoked by me.

At one stage we spoke on facebook for well over 2 hours till about 1am. This happened once though.

It seems to me every time we talk it involves playful but always heated debate or argument on something.

She also started talking about her failed past relationships, that they couldn't handle her and that there was a lack of passion or craziness for her.

I wouldn't necessarily say I'm a normal person, I have warped ideals and thoughts. And she mentions that she needs someone just as crazy to stand her.

Over the weeks though, Ive come to realize there isnt that much talk between us (possibly due to how busy everyone is). So Im just confused as to how she would feel.

Its a long shot, but Ill probably ask her out for a drink in person when the opportunity arises.

Another thing is, most relationships ive been involved in its the same sort of way of getting together; you begin to text and things more frequently, but this just isnt the case here. Does that mean anything significant or its just another weird way in which relationships form, whether they be rushed like teen relationships or taken really slow.

Mind you she is much older than me so that may too play a part.

What would your learned opinions be overall?

Thanks so much!

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