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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My lesbian girlfriend of three years cheated on me with my male friend who was staying with us. I will never talk to him again, but i'm still with her. I understand why she did it and i want to forgive her and trust her again but I'm really struggling. I'm also having trouble with being ok with her male friends.How do i forgive and trust her again? And how do i be ok with her male friends
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (28 August 2010):
 You can't force yourself to trust her again. She's the one who should be trying to earn your trust back, she's supposed to be earning your forgiveness, it's not something you can force. Sorry I can't offer something more.
I hope that helps.
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