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41-50,
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writes: Hello there,my question is:after 3 years of love, we broke up for a year and a half, now we are communicating (MSN) again as friends i guess..i'm still in love with her, how likely this kind of relations works after a broke up if we want to come back to each other again. and what is the best way to work it out again?In details :)i'm a guy 32 years old and my ex is 27..my ex and i were in love for 3 years, she decided to put and for our relationship, though i put all my efforts to keep our love alive. but she decided to go and continue her life without me.it has been a year an a half since we broke up and she got a boyfriend immediately after we broke up. i was not happy about that, and i couldn't manage to take it in a friendly way as she was hopping, because i'm so in love with her. and it was not an easy thing for me to do. anyhow we send each other little e-mails every couple of months only a little hello message.one month back she added me on MSN i welcomed her, she said she's emotionally fragile, and she think of my sometimes, and she was telling me about the things that she appreciate about me.in general i'm a sweet and generous guy, i'm surrounded with people who love's me because of my positive attitude towards life.today we were chatting for the 7th time it was about life in general, then she asked me joking if i would merry her! i told her in short that she's the only love of my life, and joking i answered i'm still waiting for you.. but actually this is the fact. because i was not able to love anyone after her..
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (28 August 2010):
Ooo be careful here. She's jerked you around once you don't want it to happen again. In my personal view I don't think rekindled relationships work (this is based on experience) but I know some do work out but both partners have to be absoutely 100% committed to making it work.
If you do get back with this girl go into it with your eyes wide open.
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