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writes:I know this sounds bad but i have a boyfriend who's shy. He wont say anything sexual. I told him today that im a little horny sometimes...and now im afraid im losing him. He didnt reply back ( it was over Facebook ). What should i do? What can i say to make things back to normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@VikkiDec1....we've been dating for a month but we've known each other for awhile...i toke your advice and i think its working :D....Nathan is also really sweet and gentlemen like.
@ anonymous..... no i did not post it on his wall....we were instant messaging. Yes we are too young ( i guess) and your also right....my horomones are RAGING. I guess i did rush a little because im used to dating older guys 14-17....and they're always so perverted...i just got used to it. i am going to talk to him face to face when i get a chance.
@Both... THANKZZ..lol
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reader, VikkiDec1 +, writes (28 August 2010):
 How long have you two been going out? I am going out with a shy guy also and I know where your coming from. You did not mess up by writing that, he probably just isn't that comfortable with u enough yet to talk like that. Ease up on the sexual talk until he initiates it, and he will. The key to a relationship with a shy guy is to be patient with him. Relax, be yourself, and let him take his time with things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): Hopefully you didn't post that comment to his wall...
IMO, you guys are way too young to even be thinking about sex, (though I know those hormones are starting up), so he's probably just not ready to go there. Just tell him you're sorry you made him uncomfortable, and to let you know when he's ready to talk about that sort of thing.
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