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writes:Me and my boyfriend are back together after a 3 month break, the prolem is my friends and family aren't pleased for me because its a long distance relationshop they think im stupid for it but they dont understand how i feel. Also, I have my friends and some family on facebook but dont like sharing my relationship with my family, please could you help me?
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (28 August 2010):
It's understandable that they aren't happy that you're going back into your long-distance relationship. Because chances are that they've seen people in them or were in them themselves and realize that lots of the time, they don't work out. So the question is mostly, what kind of long-distance relationship is this? Is it a short-term long-distance thing? Or will it be for the foreseeable future? If your relationship will be mostly long-distance for a long time, it might not be worth it. I know that when you like and love someone, it's hard to give them up even if it's long-distance. But long-distance makes so many problems worse. And it's hard not having the person you care about there to go on dates, hold you, or anything.
I'm not telling you to break up, but if you find that things are really hard and you guys are discussing possibly breaking up, you might not want to try that hard to make it work. Because even though it will hurt, you can find someone close by and have a relationship with things you can't have now.
Also, you should be able set facebook settings so that some people can see some things, and others can't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): dont worry about what they think. its your life you do what they want. and if your family want to stalk your relationship on facebook, let them. (just dont put anything too personal up there!) trust me, ive lost boyfreinds because of listening to freinds and family, and its only left me feeling upset. do what you want and dnt care about anyone else, they just need to mind their own businessxx
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