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anonymous
writes:i noticed that a condom was missing from mine and my boyfriends stash he got mad when i asked him about it and then he said later that last time we had sex he used two to help him last longer. I didn't notice but we have been together for six years and he has never done this before it sounds real funny to me i am not sure what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): It sounds like you are looking for him to cheat if you are counting your condoms! But to me it sounds like he is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): Sounds shady to me. Especially because he got mad when you asked him about it. He was either pretending to be mad to buy some time to make up an excuse, or he was embarrassed to admit he was afraid he wouldn't last long enough. You have been with him for 6 years. Does he have a problem with not being able to last long enough? If not, I'm sorry to say this, but there is a good chance that he is cheating on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): Give him the benefit of the doubt, that is unless there are other signs of cheating. Like a constantly cleared caller ID, or really lame excuses for being late. If this is the only sighn you have that he was unfaithful, it's not much of a sign. Keep an eye on the stash, but don't stress yourself out. I wouldn't worry about one missing condom. I would worry if a half empty box appeared in his car!
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reader, Aliceinunderland  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 Using two condoms is dangerous, it makes it more likely that the condom will split. Don't chase him up on it count the amount before and after you both have sex, if then there is a problem then talk to him.
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