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Just rubbing shoulders or something more?

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Question - (21 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2010)
A male India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I belong to about 5 to 8 ethnic groups in India and Western Europe.

Girls who are in a relationship seem to like brushing shoulders with me even though they are already in a relationship. After a while some get comfy enough to brush their boob on my arm.

Are they trying to say that they are willing to be intimate with me but not have full on intercourse? While they usually aren't relatives, the girls how brush shoulders with me usually are from my ethnic groups (whether it is India, Germanic, Scandinavian, etc...)

A black or an Asian (I'm not of their ethnicity) hasn't ever brushed shoulders (or any of their upper body parts as they walk past me) even though I'd be more than happy and prefer to have children or marry a Black or an Azn girl as I like and prefer exotic girls for a full on relationship.

Sometimes I don't have to walk past them (especially true if I've already spoken to them) I'm just standing still and am not walking and the girls I share an ethnic group with brush me with their shoulder or upper body parts on the back of my shoulder or arm as they walk past me.

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A female reader, heather108 United States +, writes (22 April 2010):

heather108 agony auntPersonal physical contact in any way could indicate a willingness to be more friendly, so just to be on the safe side, you should treat it as such and and make the next move.

It is not nice to hurt a girl's feelings.

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