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writes:hi. please help mei have had hhe same Health and Physical Education teacher for the past 3 years. I am 15 turning 16 at the end of the year. I have completely fallen for him. He is 30 with a wife and two adorable children. I dream about him every night and when i have sport i cant stop looking at his lips to his manly parts. I really want to be with him. He is friends with my cousin who also had his a a PE teacher throughout high shcool. My friends think im crazy but i know what i feel and i feel excited to go to school because i know i will see him. I couldnt stop grining when he taught us Sex Ed. I need help i want to be with him i want my lips to touch his but he shown no intrest in me. What Can I Do??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2010): Fantasizing about someone is harmless, but trying to fulfill those fantasies may bring trouble.Try to stop dwelling upon these thoughts.Its a crush and soon it will be over.Dont do any such thing for which u may feel sorry in future.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 Get your mind of him, date boys your own age. Having crushes is part of growing up but make sure you keep it as a crush and don't try anything he is your teacher. There are to many obstacles First of all this is illegal in two ways 1st he is a teacher and second you are a minor. He is happily married with children, stay away don't hinder this man's life.
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reader, swordandredrose +, writes (21 April 2010):
He is married with kids! so stop thinking about him. I know it's hard but you have to do it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 April 2010):
He's happily married, he has children, and you're far too young. That's why he's not interested. Try anything and you could get him fired and ruin his life. You have a crush, and you will get over it. Enjoy your crush, but don't think it can go any further, because it won't.
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reader, rambini +, writes (21 April 2010):
 for a start, he is twice your age, secondly he is married, thidly he has children.
these feelings may seem very real, but it is perfectly normal to have a crush on teachers, most people do at some point or another. however you need to ignore these feelings or try to get rid of them as you are only going to get hurt.
Also if rumours start going around you could get him into a lot of trouble and he could even lose his job.
you said yourself he has shown no interest in you, so accept this and focus your attention on someone who you can form a proper relationship with. good luck!
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 Well, this is tough one. When I was 14, I had a crush on a female teacher but I never seriously thought of taking it a step further. It's kind of normal for someone your age to feel this way. But I don't think you should act on these thoughts because you could get him in big trouble if he ever takes an interest in you. I think you should just pretend that you only like him as a friend if there is ever an awkward situation.
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