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I want a boyfriend! How do I go about getting one when I am the only gay in my school?

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Question - (21 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi I am in my teens and I'm gay. I've been masturbating to gay sex like millions if time and I feel pleasured but the thought that makes me have an orgasm is having a boyfriend and there's no gays in my school except me but no one knows. Masturbating is a way to lower your hormones but it makes it higher the thought of having a boyfriend makes me dribble! Just Masterbating Dont Cut It I Want A Boyfriend! But How?

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (21 April 2010):

AvgGuy1 agony auntWell... I can certainly guarantee you that you are NOT the only gay in school, even though you probably feel like you are. There are other gays there, they're just not 'out'. What's worse is your 'gaydar' - your ability to 'tell' who else is gay and who isn't... probably isn't that refined... and won't be for some time. If you feel comfortable coming out... or if you are out already, then that's 1/2 the battle. It means that others, who are not out, know that you're gay and just might seek you out - either to just be friends, or boy friends.

Here in the US, in larger cities, there are organizations for under-aged (under 21) youth who are gay. You may want to check your area or nearest large city for a similar type organization. Joining one of these types of groups would definitely give you the opportunity to meet others your age.

Good Luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010):

Hey man don't worry they will all follow you once they see you for you.

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A male reader, pipsta Australia +, writes (21 April 2010):

Hey mate,

Although I myself am not homosexual, I went to school with many people of different sexual orientations, but a lot of my gay schoolmates didn't come out until they were 17-18.

Its great that you are accepting of your own sexuality at such an age, and may work in your favour in making other gay guys at your school more open in admitting their sexuality.

Trust me there will be other gay guys at your school, they just won't come out unless they are comfortable with themselves.

Good luck mate.

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