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writes:So there's this guy who gets my bus and I see him every now and again. When I get on the bus he's already on it, and when I go to sit down I usually go sit at the back while he sits in the middle, and he just looks at me lustfully and in awe when I walk past him and we always share a glance.When the bus pulls into the station, he stays in his seat until the bus has stopped moving, and turns around and looks for me, then when I get up to go past him he always smiles and says 'ladies first' and I say 'thankyou' and smile back.Whenever we're on the bus we always look at each other, I really think he fancies me, and everytime we're on the bus I always wonder if he'll ask me for my number but I think I intimidate him or something because he never seems to have the courage to talk to me or even say hi.He's the most gorgeous guy I've ever seen, and has really impressed me because he's such a gentleman and is very well mannered, but I just don't know what to do! There's so much chemistry between us, and I want to talk to him and get to know him so bad but it's not happening!My bus is always packed and silent, so it's difficult for us to talk to each other, and he's not ALWAYS on my bus, but we see each other every couple of weeks or so and it's just beautiful and there's definitely something there but he doesn't seem to be doing anything about it.He did the same this morning, did his 'ladies first' routine and I said thankyou and smiled and walked past him and got off the bus, and I half expected him to come running after me asking me for my number or something but he never does :(argh!What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Blod +, writes (21 April 2010):
 It sounds like he's really shy but you've definately caught his eye! I would tell you to make the first move and go talk to him but you said the bus is always silent so that would be awkward.
An idea would be to add something different to your 'ladies first' routine. You could say something a little different or do something different to spice it up a bit. If you want him to have your number then you could just give it to him. No frills. It's his choice if he wants to text you or call you and it'll be an indicator as to how much he likes you. You'll be urging him to make the first move.
If you see him some other time during the day then just smile and talk to him if you get the chance. This seems like a difficult situation though so you're going to have to do something different to break the ice. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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reader, undressingHER  +, writes (21 April 2010):
how about you just start talking to him? He may be intimidated by you and wants you to break the ice.
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reader, raiders +, writes (21 April 2010):
 Write your ph# on pink paper rub some perfume on it. Have it ready and when the trip is over and he stand glance at you and says ladies first walk by him and hand it to him. He sounds interested but might be a little shy. Good Luck--go for it!
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