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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have this huge problem...well its not new actuelly seeing that people my age are having them also...but..I feel so confuse.Anyway...I have a feeling im falling in love with my teacher. He's new, just start teaching my class about after Christmas. He's fresh out of college, 25 of age and im 17 years old. Hes not married. At first when I met him..I have negative thoughts about him. like hes mean, hes going be the next di** to take over the class. Then he start acting like our age. He teaches dirfferntly than the other teaches and he's really nice. My way of thinking about him changed. Then he suddenly talked to me more each and every day now, and i feel like if i dont talk to him i might go crazy. I know im falling in love when he walked pass me at the bus stop and then stopped and ran over to me and talk to me cheerfully like any other hyper teen. I could feel my heart leap. We talked about everything and I found myself telling him everything. He told me alot about himself too. Today...we didnt talk much. nothing acteully and i feel so disappointed till he finally came over and talked to me for the remainer 10 mins before i left. I think I have a small crush on him...and its growing each day I see him and talk to him. I saw both sides of him. I saw his personailty and it was beautful even if he was having a bad day or angry. He wouldnt take out his anger at me or anyone at all....So when the question popped in my head. Do I like him? the answer yes popped 4 seconds later...and I knew I have to keep this a secret...this feelings...He loved his job. He love people. What right do I have to take that away from him? ...What should I do? Keep pretending that everything is alright?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your kind answers everyone.
I have mortals.
I just going to enjoy this crush till it lasted and not let him know. I cant do anything about my feelings. So hopefully when I leave high school, my feelings will disappeared.
Right now Im just going to enjoy the time I have with him as a student. lol
of course ill be depressed but its good to know the truth before things get in the way with out knowing.
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reader, tears of a dolphin  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 i know how hard it is when it comes to personal feelings, especially if it is something major and is not really accepted within the society.. it is not a crime to love, but sometimes, who you love is quite another matter.. i wouldn't tell you to stop how you're feeling, because that will be near impossible unless it will be in a natural way.. i would just like to know, does he show any signs that he might feel something special for you, too? since there is not that much age difference between the two of you, there are a lot of possibilities waiting just around the corner..
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reader, slowhand +, writes (21 April 2010):
Are you sure its "love" or "Lust" your feeling for your Teacher? Either way I think it spells disater right now for both of you. You will be out of school and 18 yrs old in a little bit. Just wait ubtil then and see how you and he feel about things. You'd be surpised how fas things and people change.
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