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writes:I m uncircumcised I don't know if it's going to be a problem ,i got pretty good size 9 inch and i can pull my forskin back pretty long way and it's not causing me any issues in bed ,and all women have a great pleasure during sex. Since now no women ever complained because i keep it clean and it looks not much different from circumcised penis when i m hard but my girlfriend says she hates it although she got great sex( better with guys who were, circucised) I love her a lot and she loves me too but she got problem because she doesn't like the look of it she doesn't say anything about it but i can see when she's doing oral sex she just doesn't enyoj it.I m seriously considering getting circumcised. Although one of my previous girlfriends loved that i m uncircumcised and she loved to give me oral sex.This is killing me because i'm from europe and there it's very uncommon and it's rare or unwanted, so there it wouldn't be even concern. So i'm asking if i should do it or not i don't want my girlfriend( whom i m considering to propose to) hate or dislike my penis.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): Circumsised is my preference, definitely. Plus it's more healthy:
'While the American Academy of Pediatrics doesn't consider circumcision to be medically necessary, there are some medical reasons for performing one. Those include preventing recurring infections of the head of the penis, avoiding obstruction of urine flow that can result when the prepuce's opening narrows, and preventing a tight prepuce from retracting over the glans. Also, circumcision may reduce the incidence of penile cancer (a very rare condition).
Even barring these considerations, infections, including urinary tract infections in infants, are less common in a circumcised penis. That's because a circumcised penis is easier to keep clean. (By pulling back the uncircumcised foreskin and cleaning carefully, a man can reduce the formation of smegma, a cottage cheese-like substance that can lead to a foul odor and infection).'
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 You have to ask her if she really has a problem with it or not before you assume that she has a problem with it. What if you guessed wrong and she actually enjoys is, then one day you come home after the circumcision and she hates the circumcised you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a lot.
She doesn't complain about it but i know that it bugs her. I certainly dont want to do it. I think i won't .
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 It's just a cultural thing. In Italy nobody is circumcised ( unless of course for religious reasons,if you are Jewish or Muslim ) and girls generally think the opposite : a circumcised penis ? Heeew,gross :)
She'll get used to it. Don't do anything.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 Male or female care about having sex with greater love-respect-admiration and intimacy...is all, and all the rest is only minor details for which all sort of compromise is possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): You should base your answer to the question based on what you want, and what you feel comfortable with, after all, if this girl disappears later on, you have to live with your decision forever.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 There's nothing wrong with uncircumcised penises at all.
I don't think you should get circumcised, I think your girlfriend should get over it. I've heard it's mainly an American thing... you shouldn't feel pressured to. It's kind of unnatural to cut off part of your genitals.
You and your girlfriend need to be mature about this, mainly she does. She needs to understand that that's how your penis naturally is... it would be like suggesting to her she has surgery to remove part of her vulva or labia. I'm guessing she wouldn't like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): it doesnt really make a dif, im a girl and ive had both. I really dont find a problem with them. I honestly think they're cool.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (21 April 2010):
I am from Europe too and never saw a circumsiced one until I met my american boyfriend. I was very surprised because I thought his looked odd. Actually I prefer men with foreskin, but I love my bf's no matter what. If your girlfriend can't see past your foreskin then she's been looking at too many dicks in her life. Just to be honest. If she's got a problem with it give her the boot. As a fellow European I can tell you that a circumsiced penis is no cleaner than a natural one. Regular cleaning is all it takes, the foreskin actually cleans itself. Your american girl (I assume she's american) has been staring at too much porn or too many other dicks. Give her a reality check, this is the way you look and she's extremely shallow if she demands you have surgery just to please her.
Do not marry a woman who will only love you if your foreskin is gone. And please do NOT have a circumsicion when you do not really want one. There are no benefits to it whatsoever and again, your girl has had too many circumsiced ones, thats HER problem, not yours. How long have you even been together? The one you should marry should love you no matter the looks of your penis. If she loves you she will love the foreskin too. Once it's gone you can't have it back.
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