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female
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writes:I don't know what to do. I was told yesterday that my boyfriend of a year and 5 months that he slept with someone at the start of the relationship. I know the girl as he was sleeping with her before we started going out. Then I was told yesterday that he had slept with her at the start of the relationship. How could I be so stupid to believe him that he hadn't cheated me. I just don't know what to do. I've asked him time and time again if he has ever cheated on me and the answer was always 'no'. I know that he had cheated on his ex's but I though I could change him but obviouly not. I don't know if I should end the relationship. To top it off I feel I can't leave him as he has been violent towards me in the past. Can anyone give me advice please. Thank You
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 Call 999 if it is an emergency . If it is not an emergency, you could contact your local police station and discuss your situation with them.
They can put you in touch with volunteer organisations who provide refuge accommodation where you’ll be safe.
reference;-
http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/CrimeJusticeAndTheLaw/VictimsOfCrime/DG_4003136
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 Over the course of a lifetime, a year and five months is nothing. Again, forget about whether or not he cheated, get away from him because he's violent!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): hi, are you sure he cheated and it aint just rumors?, you have to be sure he has before you end it, it could hurt the pair of you if you do! i mean a year and 5 months is a long time to just throw away! i know where your coming from thou but you need to no it is the truth, the best thing to do is go to the 'person' as you said you know her and ask her x
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (21 April 2010):
To hell with whether he cheated or not, get away from him because he's violent!
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reader, raiders +, writes (21 April 2010):
 Don't listen to much to hearsay but if you know for sure he has cheated and you can't trust him why would you continue in this relationship cut all cords and cut him loose. When he turned violent towards you should have been the first sign of get the hell out of here, don't stick around thinking he will changed. A women beater and a cheater not a catch, you can do better move on.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 April 2010):
He was sleeping with her before you were going out, and he then continued. He cheated on his ex's, which means he's a serial cheat. He's been violent to you. And to top if it off he's just lied over and over again. Just DUMP him. Dont think he will change, because he won't.
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