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writes:I have been with my girlfriend now for about 2 weeks, I have never had a problem with going the distance before until recently it has become a problem. Im 20 years old, I hav alot of debt from petty fines, Im quite poor as i am unable to get a job until my court date in a couple of months, im not sure how that one will go. I havnt told her all of this yet. It is her birthday soon and i'm doing my best to try to find some money for a gift. I screwed up in the past, so i am now trying to piece my life back together but under certain circumstances it has been put in a hold for a while. Her ex boyfriends used to do so much for her and i feel i have nothing to offer. I like her alot, i love being in a relationship with her, but i dont want to hold her back, i know she could do so much better for herself yet i care about her too much to lose her.
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reader, Just Diana  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 If you think and believe that she can do better, then you are probably right. Afterall, you know yourself better than anyone else, .....
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reader, cnith  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 what prevents you from doing side jobs? Ie. put up flyers announcing you'll do yard work (or whatever.)Don't know why court prevents you from getting a job unless it means your previous mess ups may make you go to jail. :(At least you're doing the best you can to get back on track. You should be proud of that. :)As for the girl. Unless she's demanding you be like her ex bf, I wouldnt worry. He's an ex for a reason. Maybe he tried to 'buy her' (love or otherwise) with presents and stuff... you dont know...She likes you for a reason. Don't trip so much. And good luck with court! :)
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