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*anzie
writes:I am in High School and have already experienced my first love and heart break. Before my last break up I constantly flirted with this guy and I found him handsome, intriguing, smart, funny, endlessly fascinating, and just special. He always paid me attention but I had a boyfriend so that was it. Than when I was single he hooked-up at a party (made-out), and I saw him a couple times but it was awkward and weird. I was so nervous all the time. Eventually things just died. Although I've never really stopped thinking about him. I thought about him up until Dec. than I decided it was not worth it and moved on. Now about 4 weeks ago, he has started paying me the kind of attention he used too. I've never felt happier about it. He is all about being subtle and little things. Telling me I look nice, or being touchy, and smiley. I think he is interested in me. At a party he was staring at me and I could tell he wanted to dance with me but didn't. He is shy and wonderful and CONFUSING. With all these great things, I still feel like I'll never truly know. Does he like me? Want me? or just like the idea of flirting with me?I long so badly for him to want me, or hang out with me, but I'm worried it will never happen..........Its been almost a year since we last kissed, and I feel like he's subtle flirting may just be bullshit.
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reader, raiders +, writes (9 May 2010):
 good luck keep me posted......
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reader, Lanzie +, writes (8 May 2010):
Lanzie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answer. Yeah he goes to my school and he is not like a 'the guy every girl wants.' That is kind of what I like about him, like he's a hidden gem. He has been so flirty lately. Feeding me food at lunch, telling me I look nice etc. I think that I think too highly of him, maybe he is shy. And he is afraid I don't like him? Because I am that girl, who never wants to be vulnerable. BUT. I have promised myself next time to make my feelings more known than ever before. I am going to be open and flirty. Hopefully this will show I am interested and things can finally kick off.
HOPEFULLY!
Thank you so much for your response. I am definitely going to get the ball rolling.
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reader, raiders +, writes (22 April 2010):
It sucks when you are all into a guy and you get mixed signals from him. He likes flirting with you so he is not shy, he flirts only when you are taken, you guys make out he leads you on but than he stands out cold,,,Does he goes to your school? Does he have girlfriend? If he goes to your school maybe he don't want a girlfriend and might just be a big flirt. If he goes to different school he might have a girlfriend that you don't know about. Instead of being confused you should go and ask him questions, if he does not initiates things maybe you should get the ball rolling. Good Luck!!!
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