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anonymous
writes:ok, my friend likes this guy and has done for aagggeeesss and shes been talkin about him loads as hes now single. i suggested she spoke to him. she wouldnt so i said i could have a word with him to see how he feels about it. she wasnt all tooo up for the idea but she was happier that i didnt tell her if i did speek to him.....so ive spoken to him about it, double checked he was single (he is btw), he just gave this massive smile when i said who. soo, naturally i asumed he was slightly intrested. so it was all fine but he just walked off without a word and hugged one of his old ex's infront of me. now im seriously confused what to do. obviously never gonna try to help a girls love life out again cos clearly it doesnt work. i dont know if i should tell my friend i spoke to him. i feel like i should but i think she will hate me. i didnt realize it would be this difficult. but he hasnt told anyone and he hasnt said a word to her. i thought maybe he was a decent guy and that he would at least say he didnt feel the same way. but to hug his ex..... i have spoken to my friends sister about it. her sister recons we are better off not tellin her but now shes noticed somethings up and she wants to know wat. i think she deserves to know. but i dont want to ruin my friendship with her. i know my question isnt very clear but any advice would be great...
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reader, raiders  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 If your friend don't ask you "hey have you talked to this guy I like did you tell him how I feel" than don't tell her. If she ask you don't lie to her because that outcome would be worst. Play it safe play it by ear, and learn your lesson don't get in people's love life.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 Don't tell her. And in future, stay out of your friends ' love life,unless they expressely ask for your help.
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