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Unsure where this relationship is going and afraid of getting hurt!

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Question - (21 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi all, I've got a little dilemma on my hands. I've been seeing this guy for a little over a year now, with no title. We spend a day or two a week together for a few hours because our schedules don't mix at times. He is the only one I'm intimate with, and he "tells" me the same. We've had our share of trust issues, but we have a great time when we're together. I tell him all the time how great I think he is but I've never told him how I really feel. He told me that he never rushes into relationships; it takes him a long time, and he never trusts anyone--which is why he sometimes assumes I'm with someone else. I just want to make him see that I really am crazy for him. I feel like I have nothing to lose, but in a way I'm scared to just leave myself open like that. What would you guys do? Thanks in advance.

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (21 April 2010):

raiders agony auntIts been 1 year and still your relationship has no title, You have the right to ask him. He is not taking the initiative so I think you should you have right to know where this relationship is leading too and if you two have a future.

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A male reader, Jerry James Paul Nigeria +, writes (21 April 2010):

Well,i don't think you should be afraid to go into the relationship.You've spent time together and must have observe and know your each other.From his statement that he doesn't rush into a relationship,i don't think he's a heart breaker.Just trust him and if possible let him know your greatest fear.Wish u all the best.

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