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writes:so im 15 years young recently i've been saying im over my ex alot of times yet i know im not in fact i think i love him my ex boyfriend.my exboyfriend cousin likes me hes always calling me and seening how am i doing and when im not in the mood he brightens up my day he sees me as "his future".i see him as just a good friend he says that he "can change that" i feel that would never change because i went out with his cousin and i love his cousin and on top of that me and his cousin had sex and he knows that.I broke up with my ex because he was a player and i feel that he was liken someone else while i was falling head over heels for him.my ex boyfriend cousin asked if im in love with his cousin still yet i am i lied because if i tell him then he would tell his cousin and i don't want that -__- im 15 my ex boyfriend is 20 and his cousin is 17.my parents are fully aware of my exboyfriend age they trust me because i tell them everything even when i had sex from him i feel as a child i would rather tell them the truth then lie and hide things from them.my exboyfriend cousin keeps trying to lead me to do this like he triped by "mistake" and try to kiss me but i turned away i don't know what should i do? even if i did like ex boyfriend my cousin i still wouldn't go out with him do to the fact there related and that would mess up there relationship they have and i still love my ex
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reader, toniaa  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 hi there
hope i can help you with this problem,firstly your ex boyfriends relative should not be considering or wanting a relationship with you. it is wron on so many levels he he should have respect for both of use and the 2 familys. when he askd did you still love your ex bf i think you should of been honest and said you do love him still,now he thinks you dont he will keep wanting you. okay your boyfriend was a player but that could maybe be down to the age difference i think you should call you ex bf and tell him what his relative is trying to do with you and that you dont want it because you stil care about him. and see if he maybe wants to take it from there. let me no if i have helped
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 April 2010):
You don't have to go out with anyone you don't want to. You know this guy isn't the one, so it's best not to go out with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): Um, your ex is 20!!!!!!!!! You are 15!!!!! Run! If you don't want a relationship with your ex's cousin tell him you don't and you won't be changing your mind anytime soon. NEVER do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. The cousin should be RESPECTING you, and not trying to force you into doing something you don't want. Your own self-respect will take you through life showing you the right path to take. If you don't respect yourself, then look into you, and fix yourself first. Self-respect will help you say no to things you don't want in life, and learn to trust yourself. You will have to live a lifetime with yourself, so keep on learning from every situation you have. Remember even if you find yourself in bad situations, you have learned what you want from what you don't want. Be happy :)
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